what will happen in court.
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Last edited by BLACKCAT on Thu Jul 12, 2007 7:03 pm, edited 1 time in total.
im no pschcic blackcat....bt im sure everthing will tur out all right!....just keep faith
mayb u shud challenge ur husband in court(i kno u dont luk gud in court).....you can show the court u have improved and show how wierdly ur husband is acting.....and that it involves the well bieng and the life of ur son who is still just 11 and has his whole life in front of him
mayb u shud challenge ur husband in court(i kno u dont luk gud in court).....you can show the court u have improved and show how wierdly ur husband is acting.....and that it involves the well bieng and the life of ur son who is still just 11 and has his whole life in front of him
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Best wishes to you sis.. :)
Last edited by Nicole on Thu Sep 21, 2006 8:09 pm, edited 1 time in total.
Well said pranay & Nicole.
Balckcat, u have our prayers, hopes & wishes with u, & I will say this, sooner or later u will win your son back, till then & even after that we all are there with u.
& I am no psychic, but I think u will win it.
& yeah, if I remember u are the one who told me not to have negative thoughts & made me stop being the devil & u urself are thinking negative, that is bad.
Get all those negative thoughts out, it will help u alot. & Nicole has given some really useful advice, try following it, it will give u postive results.
Balckcat, u have our prayers, hopes & wishes with u, & I will say this, sooner or later u will win your son back, till then & even after that we all are there with u.
& I am no psychic, but I think u will win it.
& yeah, if I remember u are the one who told me not to have negative thoughts & made me stop being the devil & u urself are thinking negative, that is bad.
Get all those negative thoughts out, it will help u alot. & Nicole has given some really useful advice, try following it, it will give u postive results.
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I have not a clue myself what will happen in court.
But from what I understand so have you been clean from drug in almost 5 years. Have a steady job.
You have shown that you will do something for yourself and your boy.
This valuate very posetive by the judges....they see you have a will to change and that count a lot!
Then you are the mother, your past might be used ageinst you, but since the father don't show the same "will" as you do, I will assume the judge will count this as posetive too.
I have no abillity to see the future.....but if I was the judge....I would be very posetive toward you!
But from what I understand so have you been clean from drug in almost 5 years. Have a steady job.
You have shown that you will do something for yourself and your boy.
This valuate very posetive by the judges....they see you have a will to change and that count a lot!
Then you are the mother, your past might be used ageinst you, but since the father don't show the same "will" as you do, I will assume the judge will count this as posetive too.
I have no abillity to see the future.....but if I was the judge....I would be very posetive toward you!
u guys are the best! i'm pretty sure that out time is coming (my sons & mine). He tells my mom all he wants for birthdays & Christmas is to see me.
I know his father is going to blow it soon . he's just gotten so strange, Kinda scary. my son is scared to death of him.
from what i'm understanding as long as i am clean. (i told them to do a hair follicle test on me, as well as his dad) they can not refuse me visitation. i'm keeping positive thoughts. i really am, i didn't mean to sound negative. this is something i'm entitled to as his mother, as well as justin is as my son. his dad just likes to play God. if they give me joint custody (looking like that's the way it 's going) his father will lose his mind. total control freak.
i'm sure it will all be OK, just wanted all your feelings on the issue.
so thanks u guys
blackcat
I know his father is going to blow it soon . he's just gotten so strange, Kinda scary. my son is scared to death of him.
from what i'm understanding as long as i am clean. (i told them to do a hair follicle test on me, as well as his dad) they can not refuse me visitation. i'm keeping positive thoughts. i really am, i didn't mean to sound negative. this is something i'm entitled to as his mother, as well as justin is as my son. his dad just likes to play God. if they give me joint custody (looking like that's the way it 's going) his father will lose his mind. total control freak.
i'm sure it will all be OK, just wanted all your feelings on the issue.
so thanks u guys
blackcat
Oh Blackcat, you don't need to worry, your son will be coming back to you, if what you said about his father pushing the court date back is correct than what he feels now is that he could be losing the battle and he's afraid of that. All I can say is believe in yourself, because I know that your doing the right thing my furry friend.
Hi I'm for your son and it would be nice to ask what he would like also,that will come int o question. I see barriers both sides of him from both parents and more information will be required as to what you are both going to do towards healing and self analysis and learning to share on an emotional level. Your son's father is in an emotional negative state at present and sourcing a new direction in employment. Help is on it's way,there will be a sudden resolution thru your effective and timely intervention,clear away the negative weigh up the possibilities,new chapter opening up. Your son does'nt want much just friendship ,loyalty and togetherness in return he will be one happy little man..Good luck and thanks for sharing this with us ....
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