Dear SeekingHelp..i know you mean well my friend and thank you for reaching out with your kind words at this difficult time.SeekingHelp wrote:Please do not get me wrong for saying this. This is certainly not a place to discuss and dissect the nitty-gritty details which may astrologically interest you all. The plea was made by a desperate mother who wanted some answers, time has given her the answers she was looking for and so had Rajatji. When some one is grieving over an unfortunate event, it is not wise to dissect it and further poke the wound of the person in agony. Please put yourselves in her shoes and feel the pain a minute. My request is, if you wish to discuss this topic astrologically, take it out of this particular thread and do it in the common discussion area. Please - please do not continue it in this thread. This is the greatest help you can do to tulanandi. Thanks for considering.
I am grieving but more importantly, looking at the future too. I have an old relationship with this forum and they have provided me and some of my friends with very helpful guidance over the years. I find their heavy academic discussions extremely insightful and particularly healing. Its nice to see that so many people gather and discuss something to help a soul in trouble - like yours truly. They are in a way sharing my troubles and problem by spending time in solving it.figuring out a the best possible answer for me and enabling learning for others simultaneously. Please dont get them wrong.
I chose to post in this forum.i am aware of how it works and how the discussion gets.and frankly, as i sit in this hospital ward waiting for my procedure - i want some understanding. Why did this happen? Will this happen again in the future? What maximum can i do to ensure it does not?
I believe in astrology and this line of thinking. I know it will provide me answers.It has worked for me in the past. I have faith it will in the future.
Think of these discussions as a part of my healing and coping process and then you will see my perspective.