Need some major hugs
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Need some major hugs
I have my own message board and i'm on several message boards myself but today i got a pm from my now ex-friend saying i was copying her message board and stuff when i wasent and she banned me without even giving me the benefit of the doubt! this has happened to me several times over the past couple of years i'm forever accused of doing or saying something that i never said or did. once just once i would like to have a friendship that last longer then a few months or a year and not be accused of something i've never done :( I knew she was acting funny towards me for the past couple of weeks
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Hey WLBG,
It sounds like her loss. You are not responible for others actions.
When you find true friends, they are always there.
You have to go through all the others for life expieriences. Grow with them. Don't let them get you down. You are the only one who truly knows you.
You do have friends here.
A HUGE HHHUUUGGG , positive energy, and love to you FRIEND.
Karlene
It sounds like her loss. You are not responible for others actions.
When you find true friends, they are always there.
You have to go through all the others for life expieriences. Grow with them. Don't let them get you down. You are the only one who truly knows you.
You do have friends here.
A HUGE HHHUUUGGG , positive energy, and love to you FRIEND.
Karlene
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I'm continually reminded by some of my internet friends, that for some reason, people are not themselves on the net. These friends are very wary about relationships on the net. I happen to be one they have actually made a friend.
I have been burned numerous times, unfortunately.
Here, at these forums, there are many people who want to be friends and are being themselves.
We are lucky.
Be very careful in making friendships on a lot of the net. Because people can't see each other or they are so separated, there is a belief they aren't responsible for hurting people, or not being themselves.
Personally I think they are really playing karma games that can come back to be a challenge in the future.
I feel badly you got hurt. It's another of those things called a growth opportunity. At the time they aren't fun. In the end we become the better person for them.
When I have been hurt like you have been, I sit down and go inside to one of my places I meditate or meet with my guides, etc.
I then ask the Lady( I'm Pagan, so I ask to speak to a Goddess, often it is Bridget, or who I call the Dark Lady of the Earth) When She arrives we walk, often hand in hand. We talk and I let go of the hurt, anger and pain. She asks to take it. I give it to Her. We discuss the lessons I have learned and how I can apply the lessons in my own life.
I have done this for a long time and still do. Sometimes every night before I go to bed.
Take care of yourself.
Don't blame yourself and find a way to empower yourself from this.
I have been burned numerous times, unfortunately.
Here, at these forums, there are many people who want to be friends and are being themselves.
We are lucky.
Be very careful in making friendships on a lot of the net. Because people can't see each other or they are so separated, there is a belief they aren't responsible for hurting people, or not being themselves.
Personally I think they are really playing karma games that can come back to be a challenge in the future.
I feel badly you got hurt. It's another of those things called a growth opportunity. At the time they aren't fun. In the end we become the better person for them.
When I have been hurt like you have been, I sit down and go inside to one of my places I meditate or meet with my guides, etc.
I then ask the Lady( I'm Pagan, so I ask to speak to a Goddess, often it is Bridget, or who I call the Dark Lady of the Earth) When She arrives we walk, often hand in hand. We talk and I let go of the hurt, anger and pain. She asks to take it. I give it to Her. We discuss the lessons I have learned and how I can apply the lessons in my own life.
I have done this for a long time and still do. Sometimes every night before I go to bed.
Take care of yourself.
Don't blame yourself and find a way to empower yourself from this.
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Sorry to hear that.....Some people feel better when they shift the blame onto others.But maybe she is going thru a difficult time or something to act like that......
Heres some *huggles* going to you and some positive energy.I hope you feel better soon.
Tamara :o)
Heres some *huggles* going to you and some positive energy.I hope you feel better soon.
Tamara :o)
~*~* May the God and Goddess within you shine*~*~
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hi hun its not that her true self has vanished its that she has shown her true colours and yes it is her loss, i have been there and worn the t shirt its a bloody long story so i will make it brief, but my so called friend really turned her back on me when i needed her most, i was going through a separation my house was being repossessed my daughter was diagnosed with epilepsy and my son was diagnosed with arthritis and this all happened last yr so i was on my own and very much alone up to now when i found this site there is great people on it and wondeful support and i have come out the other side so chin up and a big big hug for you
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oh i was bit busy.Now i am seeing these posts.i would like to say here that we should express our opinion on what the thread starter asked or said,not express opinion or disagree with what someone has said.only the one requesting help will chose who to listen or not listen to.
"I need a hug" is a place where we are given love,healing and hope.we won't welcome any negative things such as arguments here.
I am deleting the posts not relevant.Hope anyone concerned understand my views here.
dhav
"I need a hug" is a place where we are given love,healing and hope.we won't welcome any negative things such as arguments here.
I am deleting the posts not relevant.Hope anyone concerned understand my views here.
dhav
OnLy*I*LoVe*U~~I am a sweet Lovely Girl
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