A wey for self-hug.... positive affirmations

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A wey for self-hug.... positive affirmations

Post by jfgg01 » Mon May 07, 2007 3:14 pm

Affirmations are positive sentences that describe a desired situation, and which are repeated many times, in order to impress the subconscious mind and trigger it into positive action. In order to ensure the effectiveness of the affirmations, they have to be repeated with attention, conviction, interest and desire.

Imagine that you are swimming with your friends in a swimming pool. They swim fifteen rounds, something you have never done before. As you desire the respect of your friends, you want to show them that you can make it too. You start swimming, and at the same time keep repeating in your mind: "I can do it, I can do it...". You keep thinking and believing that you are going to complete the fifteen rounds. What are you actually doing? You are repeating positive affirmations.

More than often, people repeat in their minds negative sentences and statements concerning the situations and events in their lives, and consequently bring upon themselves undesirable situations. Such sentences and statements work both ways, to build or destroy. It is the way we use them that determines whether they are going to bring good or harmful results.

Affirmations work in the same manner as creative visualization. The repeated words build mental images and scenes in the mind, and help to focus on the aim, object or situation one wants to achieve or create. Frequent repetitions affect the subconscious mind, which in turn reshapes and affects the way one thinks, acts and behaves.

The conscious mind, the mind you think with, starts this process, and then the subconscious mind takes charge. This means that the most frequent thoughts that pass through your mind, ultimately affect your life and your destiny.

Affirmations work like commands that are given to a computer. They influence us, other people, events and circumstances. It might seem strange to you, but they do also influence the people we meet, our circumstances and the events we encounter.

Sometimes they work fast, but more often they need time. Repeating positive affirmations a few minutes, and then thinking negatively, neutralizes the effects of the positive words. You have to refuse negative thoughts, otherwise you will not attain positive results.

We mentally repeat negative statements, without even being aware of the process. We use them when we tell ourselves that we cannot do something, that we are too lazy, or when we believe we are going to fail. The subconscious mind always accepts and follows what we tell it, whether it is good or bad for us, so why not choose only positive statements?
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Re: positive affirmations

Post by Phoenixx Charmed » Mon May 21, 2007 4:42 pm

I love your thoughts on affirmations.... I totally forgot about them and the positive or negative effects that they can have. (even though I have been using them daily!)  I guess the real trick, for me anyway... is believing in my positive words! I have a DEFEATIST   attitude at times.... even without realizing! I thank you for the reminder!!!    :)
May the Goddess light your path always,The God protect,and your heart be filled with Love!Blessed Be!     Phoenixx Charmed

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Many thanks

Post by lunarcraft » Mon May 21, 2007 6:55 pm

Your words on affirmations - very wise words and a great reminder of the power of positive thoughts and keeping focused on these.

Please accept my heartfelt HUGS in thanks

Sarah (lunarcraft)

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Post by Delphina » Wed May 30, 2007 3:04 am

[[[A BIG Hug for You]]]
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Post by symulhaque » Fri Mar 15, 2013 6:18 pm

Thank you dear for the post. A big hug for you.
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