Relationship Reading Please

[lstar33]

Could someone please do a reading for me and the person I am dating? I would just like to know the direction we are heading. My b-day 11-25 and his 11-30. Thank you.

[farafina]

Could someone please do a reading for me and the person I am dating? I would just like to know the direction we are heading. My b-day 11-25 and his 11-30. Thank you.

This is a spread called the Arrow of Love and it is used for relationship readings. I used the Gilded Tarot.
----6-----  (romantic future) Temperance
4 ------5 (the querent -- the partner) The Tower -- Knight of Swords
----3---- (the union) Strength
----2---- (forces at work around the querent, influences) Ace of Cups
----1----- (the querent's self image) The Hermit

Right now the cards show that you see yourself as someone who is more introverted. You perceive yourself as being a loner, and someone who is more focused on acquiring knowledge about yourself. You feel that you need to work on your self development, and on your spiritual path. You see yourself as someone who is not afraid of being alone and who is weighing things wisely when it comes to emotions. Your intuition and that inner voice inside you are what you try to follow. You see yourself as someone who aspires to a soul connection in relationships, not flings or short term affairs (The Hermit). It is therefore interesting that right now, there is an overflow of emotions within you, stirred by feelings of a new beginning. You're letting yourself be carried by your intuition and you are following your heart. Lots of romantic energy surroungs you. Love is in the air and you are floating in it (Ace of Cups). This new love and this strong romantic energy has a strong influence on your relationship itself. This relationship is reliable and solid and stable already. Your union is kind of a quiet determination to be together and to make it work because of the strong feelings connecting you both.In your relationship love wins over everything else, material issues or any other issues. As a couple you are able to overcome obstacles because you both work so well together, in a symbiotic way and in a compassionate and patient way.It shows that things are not easy and that you both have to deal with some challenges but that you both are together and strong. Your love conquers all (Strength).
In this relationship, lstar33, it seems that you are losing your footing a little bit. It is as if things are so different than anything you have known in the past that you can't seem yet to believe what is happening... Everything you believed before about relationships and how they are supposed to be is being shaken. You are realizing that your previous way of living love was based on false reasoning and now truth is hitting you. You always thought that being alone would be a great place to be emotionally and now you are realizing that being with someone can feel even better! It is ok to feel a little shaken and insecure for now. It hit you a bit suddenly, but it will pass and you'll settle into your new life (The Tower). Your boyfriend is a very rational and logical-minded person. It shows that he is delving into this relationship with his intellectual side, rationalizing everything and trying to make sense in his mind of everything he is experiencing in this relationship. The cards show he can have strong opinions at times and can be a little overbearing when it comes to expressing what he thinks. He is very confident in this relationship and wants it to work and is willing to do whatever it takes, including if it means getting a little agressive to protect this relationship (Knight of Swords)
You asked where the relationship is heading: in a very good place. It shows that three main elements will make your relationship work: good communication, moderation (balancing of opposites), and working together in harmony and coordination. Your romantic future shows a state of calm waters and a nice ooling breeze. I feel your future together is very likely to be a nice and harmonious one. If you feel that right now there may be obstacles, you should know that the future is brighter and that these obstacles are in reality challenges that could make your relationship even stronger (Temperance).

There are very strong forces at work here that are surrounding your relationships and these forces are all very positive (4 major arcanas out of 6 cards!!!). It feels as if your relationship is protected from beyond the visible world. Be confident... You are heading to a great place. It feels as if this was meant to be.

Hopefully this reading helped answer your question.
Cheers
Farafina

[farafina]

Sorry!!
I forgot to say hello in my previous post

Hi lstar33!!!  :smt006  :smt002