All opinions...
This is like another many things. Each one have own idea about something.
For example me, I have an "army" of psychologist behind me because my mind is unusual, some think about dyslexia, other syndrome of asperger, maybe overendowed. I think that is related with my interests, qualities, disqualities and logic/methodical sense. Then if you want me to change my mind about what am I, you will have to make more experiences.
Hi Dig
We have a family member who has similar problems to the ones you describe. The standard labels don't quite fit. I think the latest is global delay.
I would like to bet that you have no problem with subjects that interest you.
I can see why you don't want another label to add to the rest and that's fine.
As for my opinions; they are there to take or leave, although they are the result of years of thinking about such things. I leave my mind open to the most outlandish ideas and some of them fit. This is because my mind is unusual.
L&L
Al